Mature men aren’t easily rattled to where
they act out, become defensive or blame others.
Mature men remain calm even when things are at
their most intense and uncertain.
This “groundedness” is something most women
love and appreciate about their man when push
comes to shove.
Immature men, on the other hand, can’t handle
a woman’s real feelings and fall apart when even
the smallest hint of conflict or tension comes up.
Here’s something you should know…
Mature men can handle your most intense
feelings and remain honest and thoughtful when
you share them (although they won’t always agree
with you, or give you what you want).
Immature men become unsettled and react
negatively when a woman is the least bit honest
and concerned about anything that isn’t great in
Immature men will act as though a woman should
have never talked about or brought up anything
about the relationship that’s on her mind that
isn’t fun, complimentary, or about sex.
Here’s one reason why less mature men act this
They often take what a woman is feeling not to
be a show of care and concern for the
Instead, they take it as a CRITICISM about
themselves as men.
This comes from the false belief many immature
or less experienced men hold that a woman should
simply be happy because they are together.
And that everything else is “drama” or
unnecessary worry or details.
*Hint- men want nothing as much as to make the
woman they’re interested in or with feel happy.
More mature men aren’t afraid of a woman’s
feelings, and won’t let things go off the deep
end emotionally just because a problem or less-
than-great feeling has been shared.
They understand that if a woman is bothered,
upset, or concerned with something in their
relationship… that it doesn’t mean that she’s
It just means there’s something she’s seeing
or feeling that she needs to share and address.
The IDEAL way for a man to be with a woman is
to stay in that strong and centered place where
no matter what his woman brings to him- he’ll
listen to her feelings and keep loving and
That means that a man will be at his MOST
SUPPORTIVE when a woman has intense feelings to
share that are about him, their relationship, or
how she’s feeling.
Healthy and mature men have an easier time
listening and communicating in a calm and loving
way when his woman is at her most intense with
Choosing a man who already has this quality
of remaining “calm in the storm” can and will make
everything in your relationship much easier.
Being conscious about HOW YOU COMMUNICATE
your feelings with your man, and taking care to
not accidentally make him feel CRITICIZED, is the
sign of a healthy and mature woman.